Albeit, who says he had a proper look? if we can get someone to hook the VAGCOM up to an A5/S5 and show us the lighting settings, that would be great.
I'd love to. I have the VAG-COM, I just don't have the A5. Rest assured it will be one of the first things I do.
When you say the technician checked it over, bear in mind he may have only been reporting what the VAS 5051 was telling him. The dealer tool, much like VAG-COM software, only shows labels for some of the bits that can be toggled in any given controller's module. The majority of settings in some modules remain totally undocumented. In the case of VAG-COM, an unlabeled bit is there becuase the people who write the software haven't been able to figure out its effect yet. But in the case of the VAS 5051, it's because the VW engineers who document the control modules and transfer that into the computer software have chosen to not make some things available for the dealer.
A good example is the "rain closure" feature for the windows of my wife's Eos; this rolls the windows up on the car if the rain sensor gets wet when the car is parked. This feature is not enabled in the US market. Even though it clearly exists in the convenience control module (I've enabled it on my wife's car), the checkbox to enable it isn't there in VAG-COM or the VAS computer. I know this because when I originally asked my dad about it (a long-time VW master technician) he nad no idea what I was talking about. He looked int he VAS computer, and it contained no information about how to turn it on. In VAG-COM, it was a case of unchecking an unlabeled box...blind faith! Luckily, someone else had figured out how to do it on MkV Golfs, and the update just hasn't made it into VAG-COM yet.
I suspect something similar may exist for the DRL behavior on the 8T platform. But It's going to take some time, and a few brave, experimental souls, to sort it out. Or maybe we'll learn that you really do have to hack the wiring in the end.